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Blogging with Caution

Author: petersons, Category: Getting Started for College

Blogging seems like one of the coolest things on the planet. You can be whoever you want to be, share whatever you want to share, and meet tons of people who can relate to you. It’s a creative outlet for gathering what most everyone wants — attention and affirmation, but without physically putting yourself in front of a crowd.

For the most part, it’s a positive thing, even if you don’t always know the people who read it. However, there can be a downside, so make sure you know who or what you might be dealing with when you decide to share yourself with the world.

The anonymity of a crowd
The audience you’re speaking to in your blog varies. If you’re blogging on a site like Facebook, your exposure is limited (mostly) to people who are affiliated with your school. While this might limit your contact with strangers, it doesn’t limit your vulnerability to consequences. This is especially true if you’re not careful about what you put out there.

With more than 50 percent of millions of blogs being written by teens between 13 and 19, and roughly eight out of ten teens reading them, your arch enemy may find just the ammo he or she needs to make your life at school as miserable as possible. On the bright side, you might also find that the shy guy or girl that sits across the room from you shares your interests in classical music and fine art.

Who knew?!

The ‘rents
You don’t have to use Facebook to blog, but that doesn’t mean that people won’t know who you are if you blog on another site. As some teens have already found out, you might discover that Mom and Dad know all about Xanga and other popular blog sites — and read them too! If you’re not careful, they may soon know more about you and your extracurricular activities than you ever wanted them to.

Posting questionable pics of over-the-top antics or sharing intimate thoughts may not be the smartest thing you could do, especially if you’re using your real name. Don’t assume you won’t be found out!

What we wish wasn’t there
Of course, the big baddies of the Internet are the predators and they are particularly keen on scoping out teen blogs and chat rooms. You might like to think that you’re immune because there are millions of people online, but if it weren’t a problem, there wouldn’t be an FBI Special Task Force devoted solely to finding these people.

If you’re going to post pictures or share your most personal thoughts, then do so anonymously. Never, ever give out your name, age, or contact information unless you know for sure who you’re talking to…and even then, do so with caution.

The newbies
Perhaps you already know all this. It wouldn’t be at all surprising if you do. But did you also know that some employers and colleges have started checking out blogs? Employers are most likely looking for references to their company. However, admission officers may actually be looking for your name.

Wondering why that’s a big deal? Current and prospective students have found themselves on the outside looking in due to the content of their blogs. Scholarships lost, athletes expelled, fraternities turned upside down…all because of a lack of electronic discretion. In the most extreme cases, admission offers have been rescinded when admission officers found details online that weren’t to their liking.

If going to college is on your to-do list, you might consider blogging only about your GPA, scholarship offers, and charitable work! Seriously, though, consider with each post what you would want an admission officer to know about you.

You know what they say about a-s-s-u-m-e
Are you the type to spill the beans about everything under the sun? Perhaps not, but you should still give careful thought to your posts before you put them up because, as we said, you don’t know who’s in the crowd! Look at it this way — if you wouldn’t say it in public or share it with a stranger, then don’t put it online.

And never assume that it can’t happen to you!

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